Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I had had quite the weekend. Work was great. I made good money and made some new regulars. I discovered a new restaurant and it was really good. But one thing that made it crappy was the fact that I now have a stalker.
The guy that has an interest in me, Kyle, played at my table. He tipped me because he was winning. A pretty good amount too. And I left the table for break and he followed me to go talk to me.
When he spoke to me, he was a little mad. He confronted me about why I was treating him like crap, like I didn't know him or something. He said " Well I tipped you, why were you treating me like that??"
I got really mad at him and kinda yelled at him.
Me: "You know damn well we aren't supposed to play with friends or family!"
Him: " Yeah, but they don't know that. You treated me like crap out there. Like I was just another customer or something. I took care of you didn't I?"
Me: " That's just the thing, out there, you ARE just another customer, tip or not, I am supposed to treat everyone the same! How do you want me to treat you? That's how my supervisors will speculate that you are a friend if you keep trying to make it seem like you'll see me later."
Him: " Psh, you know what, I'm going home. I'll talk to you later."
And that kinda had me in a bad mood the whole day at work. I made my $150 ( believe me, on a busy day like that, it is hard to get even $80 due to stupid players that ruin it for everyone.) and after that my mood along with the games started going bad. I didn't understand what the heck his problem was. He works at a casino too, he should understand I was only doing my job. I don't think I was even mean. I did my usual thing!
He even got mad at the fact that I made a joke at a man because he lost all his money. I'm there to entertain guests and make them feel better when they lose money!
Well today for lunch, I hung out with Charlene and we ate some food From Malaykham's sister's ( double apostrophes don't feel right) and that was so good. I can't believe I only spend $20 for all the food we got. It was so much! Kyle called while we were eating. I ignored it.
And then, I went out with my new friend from work. She is so cool. And we understand each other a lot. We even ended up talking it up through the night at her house because we clicked so well.
Well I got an email from Kyle and he apologized.
Some of the things said were:
" I am really sorry if I acted that way. It's just that I like you so much and I wanted to be the only one you spoke to that night. I know I was in the wrong and I just want to make sure you aren't too mad at me. I don't want to stop being friends. I know you don't want anything to happen, but anything can happen right? You even said so yourself. I just hope this doesn't ruin our friendship because aside from the fact that I have a like for you, I still value our friend ship."
This just made me a little more irritated. But I have to give the guy a break because not everyone is perfect.
I don't have an interest in him. Sure, he's a great guy. He takes care of me where ever we go, I just don't like the fact that we aren't even dating and he gets all jealous.
And sometimes I feel like he's messing with me. He's a very good looking person. Too good looking for me. I met his ex's that we run into and they look like movie stars and here I am, average Joe shmoe.
They have plans of moving to Malibu and they just came from a tanning booth. Me, I just woke up from a nap, and I plan to go to work soon. Me and his Ex's are on such opposite sides of the spectrum. I don't know how he comes to liking me. I am boring. I don't go to the gym. And He is way out of my league. His Ex's are so social, they know everyone, they all have their own interesting stories about how they just came back from a cruise going to the Carribean.
But #1 about this crap is that I am not even interested and I already layed this out to him. His persistence is really getting to me. I am personally better off alone and he is ruining it for me. I already told him that I am not interested and the way he's been acting makes me feel like I am so obligated to tend to his emotions as if we are in a relationship or something.
I am wondering if I should even drop all contact with him. He makes me feel good and bad at the same time. Good because he's a good friend, bad because I constantly keep saying how I am not interested and we aren't dating and he keeps calling and asking where I am as if we are.
I think I'll just tell him off or something.
The guy that has an interest in me, Kyle, played at my table. He tipped me because he was winning. A pretty good amount too. And I left the table for break and he followed me to go talk to me.
When he spoke to me, he was a little mad. He confronted me about why I was treating him like crap, like I didn't know him or something. He said " Well I tipped you, why were you treating me like that??"
I got really mad at him and kinda yelled at him.
Me: "You know damn well we aren't supposed to play with friends or family!"
Him: " Yeah, but they don't know that. You treated me like crap out there. Like I was just another customer or something. I took care of you didn't I?"
Me: " That's just the thing, out there, you ARE just another customer, tip or not, I am supposed to treat everyone the same! How do you want me to treat you? That's how my supervisors will speculate that you are a friend if you keep trying to make it seem like you'll see me later."
Him: " Psh, you know what, I'm going home. I'll talk to you later."
And that kinda had me in a bad mood the whole day at work. I made my $150 ( believe me, on a busy day like that, it is hard to get even $80 due to stupid players that ruin it for everyone.) and after that my mood along with the games started going bad. I didn't understand what the heck his problem was. He works at a casino too, he should understand I was only doing my job. I don't think I was even mean. I did my usual thing!
He even got mad at the fact that I made a joke at a man because he lost all his money. I'm there to entertain guests and make them feel better when they lose money!
Well today for lunch, I hung out with Charlene and we ate some food From Malaykham's sister's ( double apostrophes don't feel right) and that was so good. I can't believe I only spend $20 for all the food we got. It was so much! Kyle called while we were eating. I ignored it.
And then, I went out with my new friend from work. She is so cool. And we understand each other a lot. We even ended up talking it up through the night at her house because we clicked so well.
Well I got an email from Kyle and he apologized.
Some of the things said were:
" I am really sorry if I acted that way. It's just that I like you so much and I wanted to be the only one you spoke to that night. I know I was in the wrong and I just want to make sure you aren't too mad at me. I don't want to stop being friends. I know you don't want anything to happen, but anything can happen right? You even said so yourself. I just hope this doesn't ruin our friendship because aside from the fact that I have a like for you, I still value our friend ship."
This just made me a little more irritated. But I have to give the guy a break because not everyone is perfect.
I don't have an interest in him. Sure, he's a great guy. He takes care of me where ever we go, I just don't like the fact that we aren't even dating and he gets all jealous.
And sometimes I feel like he's messing with me. He's a very good looking person. Too good looking for me. I met his ex's that we run into and they look like movie stars and here I am, average Joe shmoe.
They have plans of moving to Malibu and they just came from a tanning booth. Me, I just woke up from a nap, and I plan to go to work soon. Me and his Ex's are on such opposite sides of the spectrum. I don't know how he comes to liking me. I am boring. I don't go to the gym. And He is way out of my league. His Ex's are so social, they know everyone, they all have their own interesting stories about how they just came back from a cruise going to the Carribean.
But #1 about this crap is that I am not even interested and I already layed this out to him. His persistence is really getting to me. I am personally better off alone and he is ruining it for me. I already told him that I am not interested and the way he's been acting makes me feel like I am so obligated to tend to his emotions as if we are in a relationship or something.
I am wondering if I should even drop all contact with him. He makes me feel good and bad at the same time. Good because he's a good friend, bad because I constantly keep saying how I am not interested and we aren't dating and he keeps calling and asking where I am as if we are.
I think I'll just tell him off or something.
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