Sunday, May 31, 2009
At work there has been a little stir for me. Some guy at work has a little crush on me, and I guess he has been trying to get to know me for some time now and he finally got my number (somehow),so we started sending text messages to each other. It started with him asking me questions, and then it ended up with me asking the questions. It turns out, this guy is hard to talk to. I'll ask him a full detailed question and he gives me one or two word answers and nothing more. How do you respond to that? And then He'll follow up with another text saying "u?". And typical me, I give a full detailed response, even two messages if necessary. I don't know about this guy, I'm not warming up to him much. I think it's sad how I'm probably the one pushing him away with my chatty antics and strong opinions about things. That's kind of his problem now. And I'm think me being the aggressive one is ruining it for him. Face to face, I don't know if I would be able to ask such questions out in the open and say what I really think. It would be awkward of course. Or maybe I would. But I think he's too shy for me. Not that I'm not shy myself. He's like three steps back. Too far.
I guess I have a new standard for liking people: they must be able to keep a good conversation.
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I guess I have a new standard for liking people: they must be able to keep a good conversation.
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Yes, good conversation is a must. I don't like one or two word responses either. How are you? How have you been? Good. That's not a good enough conversation.
Is he really interested in something? Perhaps that's a good way to get him to open up more conversation-wise. I know I go all out for psychology related conversations, lol.
Maybe he just needs to warm up a little?
Good luck!
Thanks,
Well, I don't know about this guy, I really am not warming up to him much. He's good looking although I wouldn't make that reason to keep the shinnanigans up and put up with bad conversational skills.
He's so general.
What kind of music do you like?
Rock and u?
I can't do it. I just can't. But I'm will to give it a try still if he tries a little harder.
Oh life.
Le sigh.